How to Be Radiant & Overcome Low Self Esteem
Reclaiming the masterpiece of our lives
You are not here to play small. You can if you want to, of course, but it’s not going to ultimately fulfill or deeply satisfy you.
When we want to close down and hide, life is asking us to open more. To go further. To breathe into the discomfort, to find the truth and know that we can prevail.
When we have low self esteem, it is because we have forgotten our inner radiance. We have stopped claiming our right to be in this world as we are now— we are afraid to take up space, to be seen as who we are, faults and all. We think that we cannot fully own and love ourselves as we are until we are more evolved, perfect, further on the healing path, etc.
We may be waiting for others (especially those who we perceive to conditionally accept us or those who we hold in high esteem) to really see us and exclaim at our greatness, thereby giving us permission slips to be ourselves.
We think there is something ‘wrong’ with us or that we’re somehow failing at our own lives. We fear others’ judgements and negative thoughts toward us and, even more, fear that they’re right about us after all.
The reality is, we are each artists creating our unique masterpieces as we go along. There is no wrong color or stroke of the brush—it all goes into the greater canvas of our lives. The dark, the heavy, the beautiful, the boring, the mistakes, and the glory.
Some of us would prefer to cover up the ugly parts of the painting and make sure no one ever sees them while others might say that that's what makes the painting interesting. But they are there, nonetheless. And they are all part of our learning journeys. We wouldn’t be where we are or who we are now without those things. Why would we expect our masterpiece to look like others'?
When we can accept and love ourselves as we are right now, that is when the greatest unfoldment of our true selves can happen.
We are the ones we are waiting for—we can see and honor our magnificence even when we feel like we’re not doing well or something is wrong in our lives, even at our very lowest.
Others’ negative opinions or fears that impact us are just reflecting back to us the cracks in our own mirror. The places where we are truly afraid we are not lovable. On a spiritual level, they are being of service to show us where we are being conditionally loving to our own selves.
When we give ourselves what we most wish to receive from others, it becomes so much easier to shine effortlessly. To do what we came here to do. To take that next step even when it’s scary or we’re not 100% certain that we can do it. To listen and trust the wisdom within even when it doesn’t make sense in our minds or to others.
We can do it. This is a gorgeous human journey we’ve found ourselves on. It doesn’t have to be so serious or so scary. It's a work of art.
It can be fun, it can light, it can be comical, it can be interesting—even (especially) when things aren’t going to plan.
You have a right to be here, as you are, now. Forgive yourself for not being further along than you'd like to be. See what gems you might uncover when you allow yourself space to be where you're at. What if everything is perfect as it is now?
You are a radiant being. A divine creation that’s never been seen before or will be seen again. There is nothing wrong with you. Time to own it.
Bowing to your radiance,
Nicole
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